什么人最养你？
能让你平静，能让你心安的人最养你。
好多身体和心灵上的病，不是治好的，是养好的。
最破坏“爱”的东西是什么?
不是钱
因为不见得所有有钱人都有问题嘛
最最有问题的就是
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当你想用
自己“正确”的的观念
去让另外一个人
按照你“正确”的思路
去做的时候
它很破坏爱
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就是因为
当你去做正确的时候
其实你会看不到那个人
你只看到了“正确的事”
爱一个人的方式，就会暴露他的人品：
焦虑的人，给出的爱是追问，
松弛的人，给出的爱是陪伴，
自卑的人，给出的爱是讨好，
自信的人，给出的爱是尊重，
缺撼的人，给出的爱是补偿，
婉转的人，给出的爱是分享，
索取的人，给出的爱是算计，
慷慨的人，给出的爱是成全，
迷茫的人，给出的爱是试探
Behaviors that seem smart but are actually stupid.
1. Don't show your insight
You can see through many people at a glance,
but you can expose them,
because your insight is a danger to others.
2. Don't consider others
This is not high emotional intelligence,
this is flattery,
you should consider yourself limitedly.
If you don't put yourself first,
then others will not care about you.
3. Don't be a teacher
Don't talk too much if others don't ask,
respect other people's fate.
If you give him a piece of advise,
it is his luck.
If he doesn't believe it,
it is his fate.
If you force him to change his fate,
his bad luck will be transferred to you.
家亡必有嫖和赌，
家穷必有懒和惰，
家败必有暴和凶，
家富必有勤和俭，
家安必有忍和让，
家兴必有礼和義，
家和必有情和爱！
